Tuesday, December 2, 2008

CoLD HOmAGe

Our refrigerator finally departs. It was 26! It was a garish muroon or I think magenta. It was a shade I cannot name.It got that color because our kitchen has pink tiles and mom thought the contrast was good. Mom thinking about colors and how they will compliment each other was surprising enough. In my family, homes were only required to be warm, welcoming happy places. Colors and interiors werent thought as adding to the appeal of a house. The fridge ( I am now regretting not having a name for it ) was less than 5 feet high. It is the only one my house has seen and I saw until I moved out. We had it when I could barely walk. It was there when I started school. Mom would place our tiffins on it and I couldn't reach up to collect mine. Top of the fridge was a mysterious place on which a lot of things lay. It was mysterious by virtue of being inaccessible. We had it when I grew as tall as it. We had it till I could finally stand, my elbow resting on its top, chatting up with mom. We had it till I didnt have to peer upwards once I opened it. I had to bend down to peek! We had it for a quarter century and little more.During exams, last minute cramming would happen with me resting my back against it. Morning tea before I left for college each day would happen there as well. If it wasn't mom, it was the fridge we turned to for food. It always had something. It was well-behaved. I mentally go over all the "things" in my house. My house is the " HOUSE family head" and the fridge was one of the family members. It was 26. The sofas are 22 years old. The living room "showcase" is 23 years old. The black table is 26 years or more! The tiny stool is 27 years old. The kitchen cabinet is 20! The washing machine is 20 years old too! This house aint no home without them members.Me and my blog pay homage to my fridge that went without a name. I have busied myself naming the others.

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

I know how you feel. Trying to get something from the top of the fridge, feeling around with your hand cuz you can't see. Watching the colours fade away on most of the things around the house and yet not being replaced cuz they are still "serving the purpose". This is what separates a middle class, a content-with-what-we-have family from the rich.


- K

Ramya said...

I like our fridge too very much..she's been there for 17 years now...with a repaint or something now and then...she's around 5'7"..taller than me..I have many many fond memories that are built around her...just like you and your fridge

vrinda said...

i completely understand how u feel...its the way i feel too..its just tht i can relate to wat u feel, but also the way u write too...glad u commented on my blog...
makes me wish u had done it earlier...i cud have read u earlier thn this then...
but then as they say "better late than never"
liked reading ur blog...

Kartick Sitaraman said...

Such a warm farewell to the cold storewell...

Priya said...

My fridge isnt 26 hehe..
but still am gona miss everythg in my house too, once i am shifted:(

my house is a year younger to me, 17 :P
am my home's elder sis

and today;s my home's birthdayyy~ :D

Anonymous said...

J,
Am back again. I love such posts from you.

Me

J said...

K,it is nice,that contentedness. That disregard for perfect appearance and neatness! I seem too obsessed with it until I visit Thane! I realize a house is made up of OTHER things :)

Wamya, i am tempted to paste our fridge chat here :) My fridge is a 'he' altho he is short and muroon :P

Vrinda :) I am so happy to read your comment. And yes its never too late. Hoping to hear (read) more from you.

Kartick :)I am happy we resumed commenting. Will a 'welcome back' from me ensure more comments from you? WELCOME BACK!

J said...

Priya, your comment made me go awww :) Sweet! A very Happy Birthday to your Home!

Anonymous :P Its icing on the cake when you comment :) coz its so RARE!

Priyamvada_K said...

J,
This reminds me of the song:

"My Grandfather's clock was too large for the shelf
So it stood 90 years on the floor.."

How beloved are these old things! It is nice that this culture of cherishing old things is still there in India.

In the US, once something needs repairs, it gets thrown out - the repair cost usually exceeds the item's current value.

Priya.

lemonytree said...

creative ...a very lemony thought...something that triggers so many memories...
the top of the fridge unreachable to a child as if the world is hidden under its sheet.wonderful...